What are the chances the person of my dreams exists?
Live estimate using public data from the U.S. Census Bureau and NCHS
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Looking for
Sexual Orientation
Select multiple to combine them. Gallup doesn't publish these separately for men and women, so the same shares are used for both.
Age
20
40
Race
Select multiple to combine them (e.g. White and Black)
Religion
Select multiple to combine them (e.g. Christian and Jewish)
Min. Height
6'0"
Min. Income
$80k
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Your Worldwide Search
Choose how you want to search, then click Find Out for your worldwide odds. Want more detail first? Drill into a U.S. state/metro, or a specific ethnic/ancestral background, before you do.
Your combined odds add up each country's own real matching population, then divide by their combined eligible population β never an average of percentages.
Ethnic, Ancestral or Cultural Background filtering isn't available in Compare mode yet β switch to Single country to use it.
Calculates your odds against every country in our database at once β no selection needed. Same real per-country data, added up (each country's own matching population, divided by their combined eligible population) rather than averaged.
Ethnic, Ancestral or Cultural Background filtering isn't available in this mode yet β switch to Single country to use it.
Ethnic, Ancestral or Cultural Background
A more detailed filter than Race above, built from each selected country's own official population categories. Only applies to the single country result below β not the ranked comparison tables, since other countries don't share the same categories.
Checking a box narrows your result to only people from that background β same as Race above, it restricts your pool rather than adding to it. Checking more than one still counts anyone in at least one of the checked groups, so the count can go back up as you add more.
Probability
According to statistical data, the probability a
guy of the U.S. population ages
20 to 40
meets your standards is
--%
Dream Partner Rarity
-/5
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Take Your Search Worldwide
See exactly where your odds are best, which of your preferences is costing you the most, and what one small change could unlock.
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Here's what your exact filters turn up β for the country (or countries) you picked above.
Your Combined Odds
Country
Odds
Matching
How Your Odds Compare
Ranked by your exact filters β age range, race/ethnicity, height, income, body type, and marital/parental status β recalculated against each country's own population data.
Country
Odds
Data
How U.S. States & Metros Compare
Ranked by your exact filters, recalculated against each state or metro's own population, race, and income data. Metro-area obesity borrows its state's real figure (not published at metro granularity); height and marital/parental-status rates use shared national or regional figures.
Place
Odds
Data
What's Limiting You Most
Each preference you set, ranked by how much it shrinks your pool β and what your odds would be without it.
Where Your Matches Are, By Age
Your Highest-Leverage Changes
Every row below is a real recalculation, not advice β this is what your odds actually become if you change one thing.
Estimates are built from rounded, publicly available Census/NCHS
population statistics (plus a Harris Poll/NerdWallet survey for
gambling participation) and assume filters are independent. For
entertainment and general estimation purposes only.
