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What are the chances the person of my dreams exists?

Live estimate using public data from the U.S. Census Bureau and NCHS

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Sexual Orientation

Select multiple to combine them. Uses CDC figures for the ages and sex you pick, which vary a lot: 77% of women aged 18 to 24 say they're straight, against 98% of women over 70.

Age

20
40

Race

Select multiple to combine them (e.g. White and Black)

Religion

Select multiple to combine them (e.g. Christian and Jewish)

Min. Height

6'0"

Body Type

Select multiple to combine them. Leave Obese unticked and it counts as “not obese”. Obesity is measured per country and state; the athletic share is estimated from national physical-activity data.

Min. Income

$80k

The floor bottoms out at $0, not at “any income”, so pick a number you’d actually accept.

For the U.S., age, race, marital status and income are counted together from Census Bureau survey records; height, build, children, orientation, religion and gambling come from CDC, Census, Pew and Harris Poll figures for each age and are combined as if independent. For entertainment and general estimation purposes only.

How this calculator works

Pick the standards you’d want in a partner and the calculator estimates what share of adults meet all of them. Each standard keeps some share of people (about 16% of American men are 6 feet or taller, for example, and about 23% have an income of $100,000 or more), and every standard you add shrinks the pool again, which is why the result falls so quickly. For the U.S., age, race, marriage and income are counted together from real Census records, so the answer reflects the ages you actually pick.

The numbers come from public data: the U.S. Census Bureau, the CDC and Pew Research for the United States, and national statistics offices, the UN, the World Health Organization and the World Bank for 197 other countries. See every source and the method, or look up height odds and income odds directly.

Built by Out Of Pocket TV, a street-interview channel that asks people exactly these questions. Got a question? The FAQ covers the common ones.